A Buddhist book by Ezra Bayda introduces the concept of a ‘spare lives’. Is a life that is largely defined by our parental and school education, social expectations and regulations, our own thoughts, opinions, addictions or assumptions?
When it comes to finding our life goals, we are largely foreign without to be aware of us. With aging change some goals in life maybe but they take place largely in this context.
This is not aware of us. But when depression set or life feels suddenly scarf and bleak we might discover that it is time to awakening and questioning of our previous life content.
Are life goals without problems? Our programming has, however, what...
An authentic existence is almost impossible when you’re twenty or thirty. It is in this time hardly busy to want to find life goals.
Men are largely controlled by their hormones, their education and their career goals in this age. Issues such as women, fast cars, money, career or training in their face are more important than others. Maybe you developed goals for a decade or a year.
There are men who define their goals in life at an early age and systematically control them, also study targeted choice of profession, the conclusion of insurance, matrimony and junior planning document. But the question is what instances we have defined these life goals.
Many men are not aware that she switched through life control on autopilot. Everyone thinks to make free decisions. One thinks in what we currently do and aims to find his life’s goals. But still you can wake up with mid-forties and feel driven empty and dissatisfied. It seems to be not so easy to find permanently satisfactory life goals.
If you would like to find his life’s goals, you must scratch deeper. Already the historical Buddha has recognized that:
• Material goods
• Muscle mountains and washboard tummies
• High woman wear
• Societal expectations
• Unscrupulous career quest
• The attachment to certain expectations
We can make not permanently happy.
Too much missing at all, what it means to win this. But above all the quest provides after all these things that you no longer feel themselves.
Is it possible that one can find his life goals only when they have reached enough maturity and which raged from?